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First, a semantics discussion. Does the word "fetish" have to be...

Episode #138 — June 8, 2009


First, a semantics discussion. Does the word "fetish" have to be so very dirty?

A man in his 20s wonders if he can calm his brain down and curb his desire to bang every woman he sees.

A woman complains that her lover won't go down on her, yells at her, and then whines that he doesn't want her to break up with him.

When is the right time for a bisexual come out to his lovers?

And a lot more.

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