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Is a dom entitled to sex with her sub on her birthday, even if he...

Episode #162 — November 23, 2009

Is a dom entitled to sex with her sub on her birthday, even if he doesn't wanna?

In another sub call, a bondage-loving woman goes from aroused to totally freaked out in the blink of an eye. What went wrong?

What the heck is going on in Tonga?

What the fakelele?

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