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A gay man posted some photos of himself wearing a dress. Now his family is...

Episode #220 — January 3, 2011


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A gay man posted some photos of himself wearing a dress. Now his family is FREAKING OUT. How can he explain that being a little freaky doesn't make him a transexual?

Meanwhile, a very game woman is dating a confused cross-dresser. Is he gay? Is he transexual? Dan chats with Helen Boyd- author of "My Husband Betty" to get the scoop.

A bisexual man is not out to his family. Is he morally obligated to tell them even when he doesn't have a boyfriend?

All this, and more.

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