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How to engineer the perfect fuck-buddy. She has him somewhat trained. But he...

Episode #232 — March 29, 2011


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How to engineer the perfect fuck-buddy. She has him somewhat trained. But he won't buy his own condoms, and he won't switch and let her sub for a while. Can she perfect him?

A woman and her husband have agreed to open up their marriage. But what will their friends and neighbors think when the gossip starts to fly?

A man and a woman are coworkers. They share a small lab space together and work long hours. She is in love with him. He isn't in love with her. That's one bad petri dish.

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