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Do you know what a "'bater" is? A 'bater only wants to masturbate. No sex....

Episode #297 — June 25, 2012


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Do you know what a "'bater" is? A 'bater only wants to masturbate. No sex. Now, now would a relationship between a 'bater and a sex-loving fella work out, you think? 

A bride-to-be enlists Dan's advice on how to bring her rape fantasy to life on their honeymoon. 

A woman has sex-crippling vaginal pain. Dan speaks with human sexuality expert Dr. Debby Herbenick on what she can do. 

And more. 

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