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A most magnanimous woman is married to a man who likes trans women. Instead...

Episode #298 — July 2, 2012


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A most magnanimous woman is married to a man who likes trans women. Instead of buying her an anniversary present, he bought himself time with a trans dominatrix. She wants to forgive. 

A kinky widow is falling for a trans woman. But she isn't used to the staring and general hostility toward trans people. How can she tell her vanilla friends all about her new, interesting girlfriend? 

Dan speaks with activist, sex educator and kinky blogger Tynan Fox about losing the childhood shame around kinky desire. 

And more, more, more. 

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