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An autistic virgin woman wants to get into the swinging lifestyle. Should...

Episode #312 — October 15, 2012


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An autistic virgin woman wants to get into the swinging lifestyle. Should she get sterilized now, or kick that can down the road?

During a fight with his ex-girlfriend, a big man discovered that he likes getting slapped around a bit. How can he let future lovers know this, and get over his shame? 

A woman on painkillers finds that she's turned on by the idea of a man "taking advantage" of her while she's blotto on meds. Is this a thing? Can it be done safely? 

Silly kinkster! Everything is "a thing." 

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