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Episode #349 — July 2, 2013


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First off, prepare yourself for the most Depressing Rant Ever. (We recorded this show well before DOMA went DOWN.)

A young gay man connected with another lad on Grindr. Then he met up with a different man, at the SAME HOUSE. What tomfoolery is this?

A lad and his boyfriend are planning to try out a bathhouse for the first time, and ask Dan for some basic tips. What he suggests…may shock you.

And, the inimitable Garfunkel & Oates come on the show to explain a shameful evasive strategy that many women have mastered.

On the Magnum side, Dan talks to a man who may have to adopt his own niece, because his brother (the baby's father) is in and out of jail.

Choking! Groovy fun, or not such a good idea?

Are all drag queens gay? Do they have to be? Because here's a straight woman who's attracted to them.

And a ton more...

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