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How to be a friendly but professional unicorn.

Episode #353 — July 30, 2013


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A woman has become a regular third (unicorn) for a couple's three-ways. They buy her dinner and drinks. Should she get get over feeling like a mooch and just gracefully accept their largess?

When he was in first grade, a man recalls a friend who used to roll around with him and kiss him. How normal is this, and when does it tip into molestation?

And more.

On the Magnum show, the long-suffering Doc Barak weighs in on the ethics of some clumsy doctoring in a Southern small town.

A woman tries to salvage some kind of relationship with her ex, after he helped her through a bi-polar meltdown.

And, hear the lasting effects of a really bad party.

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