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How to be a friendly but professional unicorn.

Episode #353 — July 30, 2013


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A woman has become a regular third (unicorn) for a couple's three-ways. They buy her dinner and drinks. Should she get get over feeling like a mooch and just gracefully accept their largess?

When he was in first grade, a man recalls a friend who used to roll around with him and kiss him. How normal is this, and when does it tip into molestation?

And more.

On the Magnum show, the long-suffering Doc Barak weighs in on the ethics of some clumsy doctoring in a Southern small town.

A woman tries to salvage some kind of relationship with her ex, after he helped her through a bi-polar meltdown.

And, hear the lasting effects of a really bad party.

This episode is brought to you by IFC Midnight, presenting "Breaking the Girls." Out now, on video on demand as well as at the iTunes store and all digital outlets.

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