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Dating "Senior Sensitivo."

Episode #356 — August 20, 2013


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"Cum Dumpster." Is this a sweet, sexy term, or just plain nasty?

A straight woman in Texas feels like a nelly gay man trapped in a woman's body. How can she find her people?

A woman has been using OK Cupid for 2 years and still hasn't gotten any action. So Dan chats with OK Cupid co-founder Christian Rudder on what she might be doing wrong.

On the Magnum version, Dan interviews sex researcher Dr. Joye Swan on risk-taking and using the idea of monogamy as a magical shield.

And more.

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