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Dating "Senior Sensitivo."

Episode #356 — August 20, 2013


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"Cum Dumpster." Is this a sweet, sexy term, or just plain nasty?

A straight woman in Texas feels like a nelly gay man trapped in a woman's body. How can she find her people?

A woman has been using OK Cupid for 2 years and still hasn't gotten any action. So Dan chats with OK Cupid co-founder Christian Rudder on what she might be doing wrong.

On the Magnum version, Dan interviews sex researcher Dr. Joye Swan on risk-taking and using the idea of monogamy as a magical shield.

And more.

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Episode #748 — February 23, 2021

Is it wrong to suggest to your unsuccessful internet date that she start seeing your roommate instead?

A woman's friend-with-benefits pal is becoming obsessed with sex! He fills her drawers with sex toys for her to use on him. But he pays scant attention to her pleasure. What's the next step here?

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Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray, on the science of male desire.

Episode #747 — February 16, 2021

A woman has discovered she has a taste for bisexual dudes. But so many are closeted, or don't lead with their bi-ness on apps. How can she root them out?

Dan wades into drama, intrigue and subterfuge! A gay man's acquaintance has dark designs on a straight man in their life. Should the caller warn his unwitting straight friend? Or stay out of i...Read More

Jon Ronson on porn and cancel culture.

Episode #746 — February 9, 2021

In the intro: You wanted to hear what Dan Savage thinks of the Armie Hammer scandal? Now he will tell you.

A sugar baby had been seeing a married man for 2 years, when they fell in love. Now that there's nothing transactional going on, is it less ethical?

Finally! Dan Savage deconstructs drag. Are we allowed to enjoy it? (Spoiler: Yes, yes ...Read More

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