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Tracy Clark-Flory on "Involuntary Celibates."

Episode #397 — June 3, 2014


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A woman is going nuts because her boyfriend insists on keeping a memento of his previous girlfriend. Is he being unreasonable, or is she the mayor of Crazytown?

A straight man wonders if it's too weird to ask his martial arts partner to be his "kink buddy."

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Salon writer Tracy Clark-Flory about the "Involuntary Celibates" community, and the rampant misogyny within it. Yikes!

Also, meet yet another casualty in the Kissing Wars.

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