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Episode #403 — July 15, 2014


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When a guy uses concert tickets to entice you to spend time with him, should you accept, even if you feel no attraction? Or would that make you mercenary?

A lesbian wonders how to let her potential employers know that she's gay during her job interview.

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Japanese bondage trailblazer Midori, about getting what you want out of a kink relationship.

Also, is the X-men character Mystique bisexual or what?

And more.

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