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How to find ethically made porn.

Episode #413 — September 23, 2014


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A man's wife uses their dom/sub relationship as ammo when they are fighting out of the bedroom. And THAT AIN'T FAIR!

Should it be a deal-breaker if your boyfriend doesn't like your sense of humor? (Hint: YES.)

A gay man is having some complicated orgy issues. Don't we all?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Sarah Mirk- the online editor of Bitch Magazine about feminist-friendly porn; how to find it, and how to avoid the bad stuff.

And more, more, more.

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