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Neil Steinberg on tolerance and Charlie Hebdo.

Episode #431 — January 27, 2015


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On this, the week of Dan and Terry's 20th anniversary, Dan grapples with some tricky, tricky questions:
At exactly what point in the dating process would it be polite to disclose that you are already in an open relationship?

A woman likes to be thin. Her man prefers a more hefty physique. How can she deal with his compliments if they only come when she feels bad about herself?

And, a woman's boyfriend is losing his hair, and plans to get a buzz cut. But she really likes a head of long, luxurious hair! If he won't wear a hat or a wig, is it...over?

On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Chicago Sun-Times columnist Neil Steinberg about tolerance in the wake of Charlie Hebdo.

And, a woman's boyfriend wants to spend a wild weekend in Vegas with his buddies. Fine! But does she really have to do the three hour drive each way to take him to the goddamn airport?

Both ways?
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