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How to conduct yourself at the kinky play party.

Episode #433 — February 10, 2015


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A kinkster is worried that her feminist mother will see some bruises and assume the worst about her boyfriend. How can she explain that they are in a loving, mutually satisfying Dom/sub situation?

A woman doesn't like to swallow her boyfriend's come. Is this a rare condition?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Zoë Tersche from the website ThisWink.com about how to comport yourself at kinky play parties.

And, a man with a heart condition is sick of his lovers going easy on him in bed. Can he ethically withhold the information that the exciting sex they are about to enjoy might make him keel over?

What a way to go.
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