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Episode #464 — September 15, 2015


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Have you ever loved someone so much, even though you’ve known them for only 6 weeks, that when they break up with you, you call a sex advice podcaster sobbing and sobbing?

Meanwhile, a married man with his wife for 11 years, is working on forgiving her for cheating on him, and on opening their relationship so she can be her full self. Also, he thinks it’s kind of hot.

On the Magnum, Dan chats with trans porn star/occultist Bailey Jay about the effects of hormone therapy on libido.

Also, what to do when your boyfriend is TOO NICE.

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