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Episode #485 — February 9, 2016


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A gay man wants nothing more than to watch strong men flex their muscles for him. His straight friend is willing…but would it be too weird?

A woman recently got broken up with by her boyfriend. She used to pay all the bills and float him cash. How can she ask for the money he owes her?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with the absolutely fabulous Midori about learning to embrace your kinky side and play the dom, even if your spirit animal is a sub.

And, a gay man has been chosen by his friend to police the behavior of a bunch of straights guys at a bachelor party. Thank god for refundable plane tickets.

And many responses to “Drippygate.”

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