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With poly pioneer Allena Gabosch.

Episode #492 — March 29, 2016


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The rarest of lovely creatures, a male unicorn, is ANGRY because he sees a double standard among the straight couples he joins. They reject him when they learn that he’s been with other men before them. Whaaaaaat? PSA: Couples! Treat your unicorns right, will you please?

In a classic conundrum, a woman is attracted to her husband’s best friend. And Snapchat isn’t helping…

On the Magnum, fall down the poly rabbit hole with Allena Gabosch, Founding Director of Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture. She and Dan discuss strategies for making polyamorous relationships work.

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