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Episode #516 — September 13, 2016


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A man is seeing a woman 12 years his senior. His friends think he's nuts, but he's having a great time. Is there something wrong here?

A married man has come to realize that he is poly. His wife is still as monogamous as the day she married him. How can he get her to accept his polyamorous nature and let him sleep with lots and lots of lovely ladies?

Dan chats with his smarty-pants brother Bill (an associate professor of English) on the historical roots of American anti-immigrant stupidity.

On the Magnum, Dan speaks with transsexual porn star Bailey Jay about how to approach a transwoman without making her feel objectified.
And so much more.

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