Love and sex advice from
Dan Savage
America’s sweetheart

Bi Men Dating Straight Women

Episode #524 — November 8, 2016


0 Comments

A woman has been dumped by her boyfriend of 6 years. She is considering some sort of grand gesture to win him back. Should she throw a parade? Hire a lesbian motorcycle gang to deliver one single rose? Or maybe let him go?

A 22 year old gay man has been dating a 58 year old man for 2 years. HIs family isn't crazy about this. The caller is beginning to doubt this romance. Like a sharp beam of sunlight slicing through his cloud of confusion, Dan Savage gives him permission to break up.

On the Magnum, Dan chats with out n' proud bisexual writer Zachary Zane about the challenges bi men face in meeting and dating straight women.

And, a man confronts rape culture as he learns how many members of his own family have endured assault. Total bummer.

206-302-2064

This episode is brought to you by Audible. Get a free 30-day trial at Audible.com/savage.

The Savage Lovecast is sponsored by Headspace, the guided meditation app that will help you focus and reduce stress. Learn more at Headspace.com/Savage

This episode of the Lovecast is brought to you by Winc- the wine club that helps you to choose wine that suits your taste and ships it right to your door. For $20 off your first order, and complimentary shipping, go to TryWinc.com/Savage..

Premium animation
All-Access
Magnum Episode
Ad-free, 82mins
Ad-free episode with exclusive extended content with the guest. An All-Access subscription allows you to listen to all the Magnums we’ve ever made for the duration of your subscription.

This episode is brought to you by Audible. Get a free 30-day trial at Audible.com/savage.

The Savage Lovecast is sponsored by Headspace, the guided meditation app that will help you focus and reduce stress. Learn more at Headspace.com/Savage

This episode of the Lovecast is brought to you by Winc- the wine club that helps you to choose wine that suits your taste and ships it right to your door. For $20 off your first order, and complimentary shipping, go to TryWinc.com/Savage..

Have a question?
Ask Dan a question for the show
Call 206-302-2064

Bad 'Stache

Episode #637 — January 8, 2019

A Jewish woman is bringing her boyfriend to the Hanukkah party. Great, right? But as always, there's a problem. He has a HITLER MUSTACHE. Because he "likes the look." Dan chats with this woman, and you get to listen.

A young man's parents discovered kinky sexts on his phone. How can he explain BDSM to his freaked out mom n' pop?

On the Magn...Read More

Using the poly label to cheat, cheat, cheat.

Episode #636 — January 1, 2019

The first call of 2019 is all about public sex. So that's how things are looking.

We then move on to a deep, methodical analysis of the life cycle of your vibrator. How long should those things last anyway?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with queer sex writer Sophie Saint Thomas about her article in Playboy titled "Are Some People Just Slapping t...Read More

Hemorrhoids for Christmas.

Episode #635 — December 25, 2018

Gather round the Lovecast Christmas tree children, and see what audio gifts we have for you! Why, here's a question from a power bottom who pees when he gets fucked! And look! A woman's boyfriend won't use sex toys on her if they've been used before. Should she ask Santa to get her some brand new, still-in-the-box butt plugs? And, oh good heavens,...Read More

Subscribe to the Magnum
Ad-free episodes with exclusive extended content
Subscribe now