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Bi Men Dating Straight Women

Episode #524 — November 8, 2016


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A woman has been dumped by her boyfriend of 6 years. She is considering some sort of grand gesture to win him back. Should she throw a parade? Hire a lesbian motorcycle gang to deliver one single rose? Or maybe let him go?

A 22 year old gay man has been dating a 58 year old man for 2 years. HIs family isn't crazy about this. The caller is beginning to doubt this romance. Like a sharp beam of sunlight slicing through his cloud of confusion, Dan Savage gives him permission to break up.

On the Magnum, Dan chats with out n' proud bisexual writer Zachary Zane about the challenges bi men face in meeting and dating straight women.

And, a man confronts rape culture as he learns how many members of his own family have endured assault. Total bummer.

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