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The pleasures and dangers of choking.

Episode #533 — January 10, 2017


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A man's friend came out when they were in high school. Now after a sojourn to the desert to "pray away the gay" the tortured closet case is "church hunting for a bride." Can his pal talk him out of this?

A woman's co-worker tried to kiss her at work, despite her unrelentingly professional demeanor, and complete lack of interest. Now they have to go on a work trip together. How can she bat him away? Should she skip the trip?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with a kink expert about choking.

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