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She went and fucked her concierge and now things are terribly awkward with...

Episode #54 — October 29, 2007


She went and fucked her concierge and now things are terribly awkward with him... should she get him fired? * A man's crush just got sexually assaulted and now she's wrecked. He's tried being caring and supportive... how can he get back into her pants? * Another caller's fiancé is a marijuana enthusiast. He's smoking up all her money and lies about it. Any ideas on what she should do? * And finally, a woman is chagrined to discover that during a nasty breakup fight, she found that the cruel and domineering behavior of her boyfriend... turned her on! How can she get some more of that?

Also, a caller with a devastatingly sexy New Zealand accent. Rrrrowwwrr!

Call 206-201-2720

Keep it short, but give us details. And please don't call from the car or subway.

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Bad 'Stache

Episode #637 — January 8, 2019

A Jewish woman is bringing her boyfriend to the Hanukkah party. Great, right? But as always, there's a problem. He has a HITLER MUSTACHE. Because he "likes the look." Dan chats with this woman, and you get to listen.

A young man's parents discovered kinky sexts on his phone. How can he explain BDSM to his freaked out mom n' pop?

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Using the poly label to cheat, cheat, cheat.

Episode #636 — January 1, 2019

The first call of 2019 is all about public sex. So that's how things are looking.

We then move on to a deep, methodical analysis of the life cycle of your vibrator. How long should those things last anyway?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with queer sex writer Sophie Saint Thomas about her article in Playboy titled "Are Some People Just Slapping t...Read More

Hemorrhoids for Christmas.

Episode #635 — December 25, 2018

Gather round the Lovecast Christmas tree children, and see what audio gifts we have for you! Why, here's a question from a power bottom who pees when he gets fucked! And look! A woman's boyfriend won't use sex toys on her if they've been used before. Should she ask Santa to get her some brand new, still-in-the-box butt plugs? And, oh good heavens,...Read More

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