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When your partner has BPD.

Episode #540 — February 28, 2017


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This episode is brought to you by We-Vibe, makers of award-winning pleasure products for couples. Go to We-Vibe.com and use promo code SAVAGE.

This episode of the Savage Lovecast is also brought to you by BollandBranch.com: luxury, affordable fair trade certified sheets. Get $50 off a set of sheets plus free shipping by going to BollandBranch.com and enter Savage.

Today’s episode is also brought to you by Blue Apron. the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week’s menu and get your first 3 meals free by going to BlueApron.com/Savage.

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