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When your partner has BPD.

Episode #540 — February 28, 2017


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A woman's 61 year-old father confided that he has discovered kink. Should she help to connect him to kink resources when she herself is vanilla, and also...his daughter?

A man worries that his attraction to East-Indian women might be racist. Dan helps unpack the complicated issues around attraction to specific races.

On the Magnum, Dan talks with Randi Kreger, author and expert on Borderline Personality Disorder about dating someone with this unpleasant condition.

And, all hail the Cuck-Queen! Dan chats with a woman who gets off on her husband sleeping with other women. Dan instructs her on the alchemical art of turning jealousy into lust.

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