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Black bottoming with sexy Marquis.

Episode #584 — January 2, 2018


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A woman is facing old school, mild harassment at her law firm, of all places. How can she learn to shut these men down without looking like a Grumpy Gertie?

A man is dating a new woman who seems great. But! She reminds him so much of his abusive ex, that he can't even. Should he explain his sudden absence to her? Break up cleanly? Try to make it work?

On the Magnum, racial erotics ahoy! It would appear that white men want black men to fuck them. But what of the black man who just wants to get fucked? Dan enlists Marquis- a black man who knows what the hell is going on here.

And Dan explains the nature of the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship to a nervous lady.

Don't be nervous. Take a deep breath and call 206-302-2064

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Dan! Dan! My dildos melted together in the drawer! Horrifically, this is not uncommon if you buy cheap-ass sex toys.

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