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A gay cuckolding study with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Episode #590 — February 13, 2018


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A woman is worried that a couple she's friends with will ask her and her husband to swing. How can she politely tell them that she and her husband don't roll that way?

A man's new boyfriend is so wonderful! Their relationship is beautiful and amazing. Unfortunately, he is also a homeless, lying meth-head. How can the caller confront his boyfriend with compassion?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Dr. Justin Lehmiller about a study looking at cuckolding among gay men.

And, a woman's mother's boyfriend invites her to his pool alone, texts her out of nowhere and gives her random gifts of cash. She is loathe to fear the worst about him, but...well, she fears the worst about him. And so does Dan Savage.

And so will all of you.
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