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Where do kinks come from?

Episode #608 — June 19, 2018


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A woman had offered an Amazon delivery guy a drink of water in her house, and gave him her phone number. One year later he started sending her nasty messages and dick pics. Should she report him to his employer? Call the cops?

A divorced man's 13 year-old daughter came out to him as a "homo-romantic asexual." Should he tell her conservative Christian mother? Also, is this just a phase?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Phd student Sam Hughes about his work exploring why some people are kinky.

And, hear the tale of the lice-ridden, bed bugs-carryin', panty-free hippy chick.

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