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How to date when you study sex. With Dr. Debby Herbenick.

Episode #612 — July 17, 2018


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A lesbian is a divorcée at age 20. How can she tell her future girlfriends that she had spectacularly bad judgement when she was of a tender age?

Hey everyone! Meet Jason, the offended gay Christian! He wishes Dan wouldn't be so derisive of religion. Dan has an answer for him.

On the Magnum, a caller is studying to become a sexuality professor. This makes her dates FREAK THE FUCK OUT. Dan brings on an actual sexuality professor -Dr. Debby Herbenick- to address how she dealt with her dating life.

And, what should you do when you discover your best friend's new date is on the sex offender registry? (Besides call us.)

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