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Second Opinion with Hola Papi!

Episode #621 — September 18, 2018


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A woman enjoys anonymous webcamming with older men. But do they cross a line when they both pretend that she's... very young?

A poly father doesn't know how to explain his healthy, happy relationships to his 5 year old daughter.

On the Magnum, Dan enlists JP Brammer, author of the "Hola Papi" advice column to talk about interracial dating and to take down a personal trainer/tease.

And, a guy with a girlfriend is sick of everyone asking when they're going to have kids. They don't want kids. What is wrong with people?

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