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Episode #626 — October 23, 2018


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In the intro, Dan and blogger/trans rights activist Parker Molloy fume over 45's latest anti-trans bluster.

A straight man who is apparently just learning some basic facts about our world, wants to know: Do gays ever get divorced?

On the Magnum, things get a bit more complicated. Dan interviews Dr. Justin Lehmiller, author of "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life.” They discuss the origins of kinks, and if you can shut them off if they bum you out.

Finally, a woman is majorly skeezed whenever she thinks about the existence of incest porn. She just can't go there. Dan's suggestion? ***SPOILER*** Don't go there.

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