Love and sex advice from
Dan Savage
America’s sweetheart

With Justin Lehmiller & Parker Molloy

Episode #626 — October 23, 2018


0 Comments

In the intro, Dan and blogger/trans rights activist Parker Molloy fume over 45's latest anti-trans bluster.

A straight man who is apparently just learning some basic facts about our world, wants to know: Do gays ever get divorced?

On the Magnum, things get a bit more complicated. Dan interviews Dr. Justin Lehmiller, author of "Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life.” They discuss the origins of kinks, and if you can shut them off if they bum you out.

Finally, a woman is majorly skeezed whenever she thinks about the existence of incest porn. She just can't go there. Dan's suggestion? ***SPOILER*** Don't go there.

Tushy: This episode is brought toy by Tushy- the modern bidet attachment that washes your ass completely. Go to www.HELLOtushy.com and get 10% off your order with promo code SAVAGE. Stop wiping and start washing with TUSHY.
Chappy: This episode is brought to you by Chappy, the free gay relationship app for guys. Chappy is THE online dating app for guys to connect, chat and build relationships. Search for Chappy in the app store.
Away : This episode of Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Away. Away makes first-class luggage at coach prices that allow you to charge your phone on the go. For $20 off a suitcase, go to AwayTravel.com/Savage and use the promo code: Savage.
dr. justin lehmiller polyamory pornography nre. hiv emotional affairs incest jealousy parker molloy exhibitionists pegging. divorce kissing transgender
Premium animation
All-Access
Magnum Episode
Ad-free, 79mins
Ad-free episode with exclusive extended content with the guest. An All-Access subscription allows you to listen to all the Magnums we’ve ever made for the duration of your subscription, as well as all the early shows starting with Episode 1.
Tushy: This episode is brought toy by Tushy- the modern bidet attachment that washes your ass completely. Go to www.HELLOtushy.com and get 10% off your order with promo code SAVAGE. Stop wiping and start washing with TUSHY.
Chappy: This episode is brought to you by Chappy, the free gay relationship app for guys. Chappy is THE online dating app for guys to connect, chat and build relationships. Search for Chappy in the app store.
Away : This episode of Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Away. Away makes first-class luggage at coach prices that allow you to charge your phone on the go. For $20 off a suitcase, go to AwayTravel.com/Savage and use the promo code: Savage.
dr. justin lehmiller polyamory pornography nre. hiv emotional affairs incest jealousy parker molloy exhibitionists pegging. divorce kissing transgender
Have a question?
Ask Dan a question for the show
Call 206-302-2064

Wife Sharing! With Michael Cee of the Keys and Anklets Podcast.

Episode #742 — January 12, 2021

When your wife is buddies with the MAGA crowd: Dan counsels a man whose wife hangs out with covid-denying, conspiracy theory-believing, Trump-loving simpletons. He is pretty conservative himself, but these people! It's too much!

A middle-aged man is newly grappling with his bisexuality. The wife isn't into it. How can he find other guys like hi...Read More

Insta-Apocalypse with JoEllen Notte.

Episode #741 — January 5, 2021

Ah, the pleasures of getting rimmed! But what if you are alone, during quarantine times? Is there a sex toy out there to help a lass get off?

Starting in kindergarten, a woman began masturbating using a very specific and very odd technique. Now she needs to do this, and she's super-embarrassed about it. How can she get over her shame, and possi...Read More

Sex advice from a former Republican operative.

Episode #740 — December 29, 2020

In our opening "sexcess story", how to turn your tiny quarantine apartment into a home sex-club discotheque.

A woman has thoughtfully chosen to not have children. So why do friends and strangers hassle her about this?

On the Magnum, Dan goes toe to toe with his (formerly) Republican enemy Tim Miller. Before Miller saw the light he was the com...Read More

Subscribe to the Magnum
Ad-free episodes with exclusive extended content
Subscribe now