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Episode #638 — January 15, 2019


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A gay man is sick of always having to initiate with his new boyfriend. The boyfriend is a big guy, but very submissive. How can the caller get the dude to make a move now and again?

A woman caught her fiancé wanking to photos of his exes. Now she feels jealous and insecure. How can she get over it?

On the Magnum, hear two tales of companionate marriages: How to do it right, and how to do it wrong.

And, a woman with baby fever is single, but hell bent on reproducing. She is convinced her parents will disapprove of her plan to find a sperm donor. But she's gonna do it anyway...

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