Love and sex advice from
Dan Savage
America’s sweetheart

What do we do now that Tumblr is dead?

Episode #658 — June 4, 2019


0 Comments

Here's a conundrum: A black, gay man is married to his white husband. They want to drive into threesomes, but the black man is only attracted to white men and the white man is only attracted to black men. So you see. This is a real pickle.

Meanwhile, a straight man has fantasies where he is a gay leather daddy, and his real life butch lesbian friend is his sub "boy." Is this a thought crime?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Fast Company freelance journalist Sean Captain about the sad demise of Tumblr as safe space to find sweet, sweet pornography. He talks about the media landscape and what is emerging as Tumblr's likely replacements.

And, a man who recently moved to Los Angeles, feels daunted by his new roommate who thinks she's psychic and talks to spirits. Is everyone like this in LA?

Boll and Branch: This episode of the Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Boll and Branch: luxury, affordable fair trade certified sheets. Get $50 off a set of sheets plus free shipping by going to BollandBranch.com and enter Savage.
Simple Health: Thanks to Simple Health for supporting Savage Lovecast. Try Simple Health and get the $20 prescription fee waived by going to Simplehealth.com/savage or use promo code: savage.
Harry's: This episode is brought to you by Harry's- they make the best razors you will ever shave with. Go to HARRYS.COM/SAVAGE for a special offer.
dadt threeways twinks circumcision depression addiction asexuality online dating fantasies snooping
Premium animation
All-Access
Magnum Episode
Ad-free, 82mins
Ad-free episode with exclusive extended content with the guest. An All-Access subscription allows you to listen to all the Magnums we’ve ever made for the duration of your subscription, as well as all the early shows starting with Episode 1.
Boll and Branch: This episode of the Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Boll and Branch: luxury, affordable fair trade certified sheets. Get $50 off a set of sheets plus free shipping by going to BollandBranch.com and enter Savage.
Simple Health: Thanks to Simple Health for supporting Savage Lovecast. Try Simple Health and get the $20 prescription fee waived by going to Simplehealth.com/savage or use promo code: savage.
Harry's: This episode is brought to you by Harry's- they make the best razors you will ever shave with. Go to HARRYS.COM/SAVAGE for a special offer.
dadt threeways twinks circumcision depression addiction asexuality online dating fantasies snooping
Have a question?
Ask Dan a question for the show
Call 206-302-2064

This Proctologist Gets It.

Episode #764 — June 15, 2021

Our opening "Sexcess" story should flood all you postpartum parents with optimism.

A married straight couple have an arrangement where she can go outside the relationship, and he remains monogamous to her. All good. But she wants to tell everyone about it, and he wants to keep it under wraps. Who wins?

On the Magnum, meet the elite proctolog...Read More

Problematic Fantasies, with Dr. Justin Lehmiller.

Episode #763 — June 8, 2021

Sometimes the "happy ending" in an erotic massage can go both ways. Our caller enjoyed orally pleasuring his masseuse so much that he wants to continue the relationship outside the parlor. What is the proper etiquette in asking out an erotic massage practitioner? (Sorry LMTs! We know you don't want to hear ANY of this...)

A married woman discove...Read More

Yes, Vasectomies Are Safe.

Episode #762 — June 1, 2021

Dan! Dan! My dildos melted together in the drawer! Horrifically, this is not uncommon if you buy cheap-ass sex toys.

A gay man is establishing a potentially great friends-with-benefits relationship. The problem? The guy won't stop sending him stupid little memes all the damn day long. How can our caller put an end to this childish behavior?

...Read More

Subscribe to the Magnum
Ad-free episodes with exclusive extended content
Subscribe now