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A medical cause for excess horniness? With Dr. Debby Herbenick.

Episode #667 — August 6, 2019


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Is it common for straight men to be "secretly into dick?" Because that's what this woman's boyfriend is.

A transwoman got together with a guy in a dungeon. But she forgot to tell him that she is trans. Her lover told her it would be wise to reveal this detail early on. Should she? Must she?

On the Magnum, a middle-aged woman is too damn horny. Dan brings on the ever-helpful Dr. Debby Herbenick to see if there's a medical cause or source of relief.

And, a "poly-minded" man is only poly-minded when he's the one who gets to shtup other people. He's aware of the hypocrisy. How can he get over it?

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