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Dental Dams Spoiler Alert! (Nobody Uses Them.)

Episode #672 — September 10, 2019


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A woman's boyfriend used to achieve orgasm with ease. But now he can't come from penetration. The caller worries that in her boyfriend's eyes, she has become the madonna, when she used to be the whore.

Dan speaks with a bisexual man, whose first attempt at unicorning (yes, we verbbed the word "unicorn,") went poorly, mainly due to his straight couple maybe getting a little too drunky? Anyway, next time will go better, brave unicorn!

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Dental dams- Nobody uses them. That is the consensus illuminated by Anna Waters of The Atlantic.

Also, Dan chats with Orna Guralnik- the shrink featured in the new docuseries "Couples Therapy."

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