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A straight woman with a high libido is stuck with a man who feels that there...

Episode #72 — March 3, 2008


A straight woman with a high libido is stuck with a man who feels that there are better things to do than have sex. DTMFA?

A gay man is stuck with a moocher who would rather surf porn than get a job. DTMFA?

With the help of guest expert Soraya Galeas from Planned Parenthood, Dan answers some condom-failure, lesbian-STI, and hepatitis C questions.

Finally, the kissing test. A gay man often ends up with partners who don't like kissing, and the relationship never lasts. Sigh.

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