Here are the dilemmas and concerns that Dan Savage helps his listeners grapple with this week:

He loves her. She loves him. But he wants to dominate her and she just wants some sweet, sweet lovin'.

A Caucasian lady offers some advice of her own to our nation's African-American gentlemen.

Is one loving teaspoon enough?

And, when it comes to orgasms, she's a lone wolf. Can Dan help a young lady learn to share her most intimate moments with others?

Listen in.

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