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A former call girl is dating a conservative man. Should she tell him about...

Episode #82 — May 13, 2008


A former call girl is dating a conservative man. Should she tell him about her history with "compensated dating?"

If you are a straight man, what is the polite way to reject a gay man?

A woman who has been faking orgasms with her boyfriend wonders if she should tell him the truth now that they're breaking up.

Amateur online porn: Some pros and cons.

He's a kinky motherfucker who enjoys the BDSM. She, as a rape survivor and feminist, not so much. Is their new relationship doomed?

And more.


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