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Sometimes the "happy ending" in an erotic massage can go both ways. Our caller enjoyed orally pleasuring his masseuse so much that he wants to continue the relationship outside the parlor. What is the proper etiquette in asking out an erotic massage practitioner? (Sorry LMTs! We know you don't want to hear ANY of this...)

A married woman discove...Read More

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Yes, Vasectomies Are Safe.

Episode #762 — June 1, 2021


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Dan! Dan! My dildos melted together in the drawer! Horrifically, this is not uncommon if you buy cheap-ass sex toys.

A gay man is establishing a potentially great friends-with-benefits relationship. The problem? The guy won't stop sending him stupid little memes all the damn day long. How can our caller put an end to this childish behavior?

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Enter the World of the Furries.

Episode #761 — May 25, 2021


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Our opening "sex-cess" story is extra delightful this week, because it centers the Climbing Boy. Our caller advises you to get yourself one, pronto.

Ok, neo-pronouns. Just how ridiculous are they?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Seattle writer Matt Baume about the friendly, pervy world of furries and the super-interesting work they've been doi...Read More

Psychedelics for the Win!

Episode #760 — May 18, 2021


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Boundaries are hard! For instance, a married couple of 12 years decided to open the relationship. So naturally, she started sleeping with her husbands brother in their own house. Of course.

And! If you knocked on the door, and your kid confessed that they were masturbating, would you A) Mutter, "Sorry!" and walk away. B) Walk in and chuckle at ...Read More

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