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Second Opinion with Hola Papi!

Episode #621 — September 18, 2018


A woman enjoys anonymous webcamming with older men. But do they cross a line when they both pretend that she's... very young?

A poly father doesn't know how to explain his healthy, happy relationships to his 5 year old daughter.

On the Magnum, Dan enlists JP Brammer, author of the "Hola Papi" advice column to talk about interracial dating an...Read More

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Bad Blood

Episode #620 — September 11, 2018


A young woman's boyfriend regularly gets her sexually aroused and then rolls over and goes to sleep without finishing the job. And then they fight. Why would he do this?

A young gay man doesn't understand why his fuckbuddy only texts him when he wants to...well, fuck.

On the Magnum: If you are a gay man, and want to give blood, you're out o...Read More

With Guy Branum.

Episode #619 — September 4, 2018


A woman's mother died last year. Her dad is dating someone new. The caller and her siblings just aren't ready to welcome their dad's girlfriend into their lives, let alone include her at Christmas. The caller feels she has to choose between her siblings and her father. Tough times, these.

A straight man felt slighted when a woman wouldn't give h...Read More

Just like bunnies!

Episode #618 — August 28, 2018


We start this week's adventure with a couple who have a secret unicorn at their beck and call. The wife in the couple doesn't want anyone to know. But the unicorn lass has already told some friends and wants to be more open about the relationship. Who will win this one?

A 27 year-old woman has a distant relationship with her father. He is 64. G...Read More

From the Archives
Bisexuals! Grab your pitchforks and fire up those torches. This show is all...
Episode #288 — April 23, 2012
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