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With Caitlin Doughty and Roxane Gay

Episode #591 — February 20, 2018


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A gay man's boyfriend insists on showering just before sex, every single time. But the caller likes a little funk! How can they reconcile this fundamental difference. Dan's answer is sneaky.

Don't be alarmed, but one of this week's questions requires the expertise of a mortician.

On the Magnum, Dan enlists New York Times rival columnist Roxa...Read More

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A gay cuckolding study with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Episode #590 — February 13, 2018


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A woman is worried that a couple she's friends with will ask her and her husband to swing. How can she politely tell them that she and her husband don't roll that way?

A man's new boyfriend is so wonderful! Their relationship is beautiful and amazing. Unfortunately, he is also a homeless, lying meth-head. How can the caller confront his boy...Read More

Robotic pornographers with Erika Lust.

Episode #589 — February 6, 2018


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A female college student is busy planning her orgy. She wants to make sure the night is comfortable, fun and safe, with minimal awkwardness. Dan Savage, (the Martha Stewart of orgy planning,) is here to help.

A man's good (female) friend is planning to go on a date with one of his acquaintances. What the man knows, and the friend doesn't is th...Read More

The Art of the Solicited Dick Pic.

Episode #588 — January 30, 2018


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Gather round, and hear two nasty tales of violent, crazy girlfriends. Would you date someone who painted all over your sheets and poured liquor on your clothes? You would? Oh, never mind then.

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Nicole Mazzeo, founder of Pleasure Pie and creator of "The Art of the Solicited D...Read More

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