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Episode #494 — April 12, 2016


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A woman loves sexting with strangers she meets online. But she has no desire to meet in person. How and when should she let her fellas know this about her?

What happens when homophobic parents never come around? Dan speaks with writer Aaron Hartzler, author of “Rapture Practice,” about coming out to intractable family.

On the Magnum, Dan chats with Peggy Orenstein, author of “Cinderella Ate My Daughter” and “Girls and Sex: Navigating the Complicated New Landscape” about the distorted expectations women face the in the bedroom.

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