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With the creators of "Tickled" the movie.

Episode #509 — July 26, 2016


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A woman is in a new relationship with a wonderful man! But! His ex keeps coming around leaving love notes, Victoria's Secret receipts and otherwise marking her territory. How can the caller flush out the intrusive ex?

What is the etiquette in asking out a guy at the gym to join you and your husband for a threeway? Should your husband be present for The Ask?

On the Magnum, Dan chats with the creators of Tickled- a documentary about a seemingly harmless fetish, that turns strangely sinister.

Also, should you go and get that vasectomy already? Dan and author/Professor of Sociology Eric Klinenberg, discuss male vasectomy hangups.

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