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Ask a Fuck-Up.

Episode #605 — May 29, 2018


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A woman was chilling with her male friend, you know, the way friends do, and sure, he wishes they were a couple, but she's not into him that way, so anyway, she invited him over after some drinking and masturbated in front of him, you know, the way friends do, except now things are weird?

A lesbian was told by a transwoman who still has a penis that it's transphobic to not want to have sex with her. Discuss.

On the Magnum, it's time for a Second Opinion! Dan chats with the newest sex advice columnist to hit the scene: Brandy Jensen from The Outline's "Ask a Fuck-Up."

And, another mysterious ghosting. Where do the men go when they disappear?

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