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Sexual Fantasies: What are people really thinking about?

Episode #610 — July 3, 2018


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A woman has started up with a great new guy. The problem? He kisses "like a robot." And not a sexy robot! How can she train him to kiss properly?

A man's daughter is non-binary, and dating another non-binary. When they have sleep-overs should the father worry about his daughter when her partner is in male mode?

On the Magnum, Dr. Justin Lehmiller is on to talk about his latest book Tell Me What You Want and his research studying what people really fantasize about. Don't you want his job?

A married woman's husband loves it when she talks about her slutty past. But she's running out of stories! Also, should she tell him about her current crush?

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