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Sexual Fantasies: What are people really thinking about?

Episode #610 — July 3, 2018


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A woman has started up with a great new guy. The problem? He kisses "like a robot." And not a sexy robot! How can she train him to kiss properly?

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A married woman's husband loves it when she talks about her slutty past. But she's running out of stories! Also, should she tell him about her current crush?

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